Creating A World And Sharing Your Aura

The idea and theme from creating a world has changed overtime. As our social situations have become more sophisticated and calmer in terms of volume of people and noise levels, our idea of 'creating a world' has also evolved and has changed to the environment we find our self’s in. 

Creating a world in a high volume venue like a pub or night club will of course be different to creating a world in a small venue or a daytime venue like a coffee house or a wine bar. This is because your world should match that of your environment.

When we are talking about creating a world we are referring to the aura or vibe you and your friends are sending out into the atmosphere.We have spoken previously about creating new conversations and how we can use our environment to aid us to do so. I would like you the reader to think for a second the last time you were in a venue and a group of people were making excessive noise that you found annoying. Notice how everyone else in the venue is also finding this group annoying. This group maybe a sports group, shouting and cheering to loud or a group whom have consumed to much alcohol and have started to accidentally smash classes. This is not creating a world. You’re would should aid you to create new conversations, not make it harder.

When you approach new people to converse with, you’re table and friends should all present them self’s as approachable people, friendly, fun, charming. It is very important here to note that your friends all should complement each other when the aim is to meet new people. Elevating each other's confidence and self-belief is more productive than competing amongst each other for attention and validation. When there is a subtle bitterness amongst friends, it becomes apparent to everybody that there is not a strong unity within your group.

Just like you notice the loud table when you’re out, others will notice your table or group when they are out. If you and your friends are being noticed by having an inviting aura that attracts people's attention in the right way by being fun and friendly you will find it easier to have a longer more successful approach as you have already been noticed as being a fun group.

However, when the venue is loud and high volume, it clearly becomes harder to be noticed and create a positive vibe. Not to worry l, in chapter four (mini games and playfulness) there are a few games and venue openers that can help to create an inviting world in such a venue.

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