Hey guys and girls, hope everyone had a sweet Christmas and
a great party for New Year. It’s been a while since I have blogged about what has
been going on in the therapist world, social sciences or P.U.A community or since myself
and Icarus have shared some ideas, concepts and techniques with everyone. So I thought
I'd start the first blog this year by quickly closing and ending 2015 before looking forward
to see what 2016 has to offer.
Firstly, let’s just start by visiting a simplified version
of a great N.L.P saying and concept;
“Everyone is doing the best they can with the resources and
tools they have got”
If you can look back at 2015 and see the ups and down, remember
the struggles yet still acknowledge the great times and memories made. If you think
you have done well with the tools you had available to you and done the best you
could, then please raise a glass to yourself. You deserve it !!!
Some of you came to ‘us’ or ‘social confidence’ this year
with heartbreak, and I am so proud to see how you all stepped up and
rediscovered your own self-worth and what you all have to offer. Truly amazing!!
A few of you came to us with depression or how to help understand a loved one with depression. Again I am so grateful and proud to
be able to see the progress made with all parties involved, including myself. Incredible
It was also incredible to see how quickly some of you got into
dating again even though the self-esteem was lacking in you at the beginning, and inspirational
how others whom needed that little bit of motivation went off to achieve so
much !!!!
From me (Darren Rudman) & everyone at Social Confidence. I
love you all and I am so proud… not only of how amazing you all are but to have
been able to share and witness these achievements, thank you.
Moving on, I know we are all excited for 2016, so please let
me take a minute to share with you the great things we have installed for this
year.
Let’s start with the charity stuff for this year. Firstly, thank you everyone who donated to the 106 mile walk last year (Cotswold way) I certainly
will not be forgetting that one for a while. This year me and Icarus have 2 big
charity events in mind if people want to join us. 1 being, we are looking to be
thrown out of a plane for C.C.P (Cheltenham community project) 2 being, either a
long walk or long cycle again, for cancer this time. Please do get involved.
I have also decided this year to teach P.U.A for free to both
men and women whom want to learn for the first few months of this year to help people get
ready for the summer, woop woop. We will also be hosting a few events again this year including football
again, so please do let us know what you want to see from us. Finally we
have the release of Chapter 3 for our social guide books, which I am sorry for
the delay however you will not be disappointed.
My time is still and will also be free for those who want
some guidance with their challenges, with either a mindfulness approach, NLP
coaching or Sigmund Freud’s famous ‘talking cure’. just get in touch.
2016 promise to be the best year yet if you let it be ….. So
keep in touch and keep reading. 2016 brings some exciting promises.
Love you all
Daz
